Feb 28, 2019
How good can your marriage be? Now there’s a question worth asking!
It’s a good question because it focuses on the strengths of your marriage, rather than the weaknesses.
Lots of marriage specialists like me focus more on the negative side of a marriage relationship. The question is always, “what’s the problem?” rather than, “What do you two do well together?”
Fact is, every marriage has weaknesses, and no matter how hard they try, they always will have areas for improvement. So, if your goal is to work constantly to eliminate the weaknesses in your relationship, you have no time nor energy left to develop the good stuff you do together.
This podcast is the first in a new series of podcasts that answer the question, “How good can our marriage be?”
Dr. Ross’s answer to the question is, “Fantastic! If you focus on what you love about each other rather than what bugs you about each other.”
He believes happier marriages begin with a positive mindset and an optimistic outlook on the prospects you have to make what’s good about your marriage even better.
The Podcast is 9 minutes long.